Soft Skills vs Being Soft
I have come across an interesting complaint by an experienced professional that By learning soft-skills we have become really soft and people are taking advantage. This was a realization that many of us have misunderstood soft-skills are about being soft. Is it really about talking/writing softly and going to a non-reaction mode? I do not think so I would say that soft-skill is to know how to say what and when to whom. If shouting is the only way out. Go for it, if you think that works and the results/consequences are worth the effort. But remember, the analysis of the pros and cons and the decision-making, within no time, is something that we have to achieve. And how do we know this? As usual, life is a place where we do it first and then learn. Try and try and put some analysis and be ready for next time. And the solution is not generic. It depends on what you are, your knowledge, your abilities, your experience and your emotions too. I would say the best way to enhance your soft...