The URINE-A Theory

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I know you are bit curios about the URINE-A theory. The theory simply states that UR(your) Response Is Not Required - Always.

We have been always taught from birth, to respond to everything and everybody around us. In fact it is the first thing that a parent checks out immediately after birth. And there after we gets pacified, intimidated, challenged, and bribed for responding to everything and everybody.

Some people considers it is their responsibility to respond (positive or negative) to everything. They feel that their response can assure best result or make things better. But most of the time ends up creating or inviting trouble for themselves or others. The remedy for this is to learn the art of ignoring. By doing it for the right reasons you are doing good for yourselves and others.

1) Doesn't deserve - Situations/Issues/People that does not deserve our attention or presence. We end up wasting most of our time for thinking about these kinds of issues and/or people. 

2) Not required - Your attention or response is not required in these cases. Responding to these situations creates a dependency on you. Ignore it and you will find a new person handling it. May be in a better way.

3) Not privileged - We can also end up in a situation that we do not enjoy the privilege to respond. In these cases analyse the situation the best solution is to pretend ignorance.

Most of us are scared of Ignorance, being ignored and to ignore even though it is said that, "Ignorance is Bliss". But as applicable in most of the skills, Use it wisely and you will be rewarded.